Trusted
Adult:
Read
the
above.
Which
would
you emphasize?
Offer
any additional
wisdom
you
have
on
what
makes
a healthy
relationship
and/or
what
signals
an unhealthy
relationship.
Signature: ____________________________________
I
s
I
t
C ond
i
i
?
You
worry
about
not
being
good
enough.
his
person
makes
you
feel
little.
You
feel
like
you
have
to
be
or
look
a certain
way
in order
to keep
their
attention
or
love.
You
worry
a
lot
about
being
dumped.
You
can’t
be
the
real
you.
You
have
to wear
a
mask.
There
is little
trust
or security.
C ontroll
i
or
D
is re
s pe
c tful
?
One
person
needs
to
be
the “boss”.
They
ridicule
the
words
and
actions
of
the
other
and
show
little
interest
in their
feelings.
The controlled
person
worries
about
upsetting
their
partner
or friend
and
often
avoids
saying
or doing
things.
The controller
does
not support
their
friend
or partner
and,
in
fact,
often
tries
to
hold
them
back.
One
or
both
feels
they
are
entitled
to express
in
any
way
they
choose.
M
o
s tly
about
S tatu
s
,S
ex
,or
M ater
i
S tuff
?
This relationship
is either
based
almost
exclusively
on
sex,
status,
or
the material
things
one
gets
out
of
the relationship.
Without
one
or more
of these
elements,
there
would
not
be
much
there.
There
is
not
a
lot
of
fun
or deeper getting-to-know-
each-other.
U
n
c ond
i
i
?
You
both
feel appreciated
for
who
you
really
are.
You
don’t
have
to pretend
or
play
games.
You
do
not
have
to
be perfect.
You
can
tell
each
other
about
behaviors
in
each
other
that
you
don’t
li ke.
You
support
each
other
in making
changes
that
you
each
decide
to work
on.
You
each
show
you genuinely
care
about
the other.
E qual
,R
e
s pe
c tful
,and
S upport
i
?
Both
treat
each
other
well.
Neither
dominates
or consistently
gives
in.
Both
feel respected.
Each
feels
their
thoughts,
feelings,
and
needs
are important
to
the
other.
They
know
differences
and disagreements
are inevitable
in
a relationship
and
do
not
put
each
other
down
when
these
occur.
Both
feel encourages
by
the
other
to develop
and
better themselves.
A ttra
c
t
i
on
M
any
L evel
s ?
This
couple
has chemistry,
but
they
also
enjoy
talking
and
getting
to know
each
other.
They
have
fun
doing
things
based
on shared
interests
and
are
open
to trying
new
activities
that
the
other
person
values.
They
balance
time
together,
apart,
and
with
friends.
This relationship
is based
on
a
lot
more
than
looks,
status,
or material
things.
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Adult:
Read
the
above.
Which
would
you emphasize?
Offer
any additional
wisdom
you
have
on
what
makes
a healthy
relationship
and/or
what
signals
an unhealthy
relationship.
Signature: ____________________________________
I
s
I
t
C ond
i
i
?
You
worry
about
not
being
good
enough.
his
person
makes
you
feel
little.
You
feel
like
you
have
to
be
or
look
a certain
way
in order
to keep
their
attention
or
love.
You
worry
a
lot
about
being
dumped.
You
can’t
be
the
real
you.
You
have
to wear
a
mask.
There
is little
trust
or security.
C ontroll
i
or
D
is re
s pe
c tful
?
One
person
needs
to
be
the “boss”.
They
ridicule
the
words
and
actions
of
the
other
and
show
little
interest
in their
feelings.
The controlled
person
worries
about
upsetting
their
partner
or friend
and
often
avoids
saying
or doing
things.
The controller
does
not support
their
friend
or partner
and,
in
fact,
often
tries
to
hold
them
back.
One
or
both
feels
they
are
entitled
to express
in
any
way
they
choose.
M
o
s tly
about
S tatu
s
,S
ex
,or
M ater
i
S tuff
?
This relationship
is either
based
almost
exclusively
on
sex,
status,
or
the material
things
one
gets
out
of
the relationship.
Without
one
or more
of these
elements,
there
would
not
be
much
there.
There
is
not
a
lot
of
fun
or deeper getting-to-know-
each-other.
U
n
c ond
i
i
?
You
both
feel appreciated
for
who
you
really
are.
You
don’t
have
to pretend
or
play
games.
You
do
not
have
to
be perfect.
You
can
tell
each
other
about
behaviors
in
each
other
that
you
don’t
li ke.
You
support
each
other
in making
changes
that
you
each
decide
to work
on.
You
each
show
you genuinely
care
about
the other.
E qual
,R
e
s pe
c tful
,and
S upport
i
?
Both
treat
each
other
well.
Neither
dominates
or consistently
gives
in.
Both
feel respected.
Each
feels
their
thoughts,
feelings,
and
needs
are important
to
the
other.
They
know
differences
and disagreements
are inevitable
in
a relationship
and
do
not
put
each
other
down
when
these
occur.
Both
feel encourages
by
the
other
to develop
and
better themselves.
A ttra
c
t
i
on
M
any
L evel
s ?
This
couple
has chemistry,
but
they
also
enjoy
talking
and
getting
to know
each
other.
They
have
fun
doing
things
based
on shared
interests
and
are
open
to trying
new
activities
that
the
other
person
values.
They
balance
time
together,
apart,
and
with
friends.
This relationship
is based
on
a
lot
more
than
looks,
status,
or material
things.
Copyright 2023 Marline E. Pearson
Lesson 6: RESOURCE 6D 132
Unhealthy?orHealthyitIs
