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What are you looking for in a partner/friend? What qualities are important to you?
Check your top 10.
l Caring/kind to others
l Dependable/reliable
l Good looking
l Positive attitude
l Athletic/physically fit
l Intelligent
l Doesn’t drink (or drink too much)
l Good listener
l Clean and neat
l Rich
l Responsible with money
l Easygoing
l Romantic
l High energy
l Honest/trustworthy
l Adventurous/will try new things
l Sensitive
l Has drive/goals
l Real, not fake
l Drug-free
l Has good relationship with family
l Respects me
l Good dancer
l Outgoing/friendly
l Has skills/talents
l Same cultural background as me
l Shares my interest in
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l Carefree
l Religious/spiritual
l Good work ethic
l Doesn’t want to change me
l Fun
l Good manners/polite
l Artistic/creative
l Confident/has good self-esteem
l Respects my sexual boundaries
l Affectionate
l Imaginative
l Good with children
l Faithful
l Quiet and thoughtful
l Can disagree and fight fairly
l Good conscience
l Sense of humor
Top 3
What are the 3 qualities that are must-haves for you?
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List 3 things you could not accept in a partner/friend (Example: drugs, no drive/ambition.)
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Focus on your top 3 and answer this question: In a new relationship/friendship, how long
would it take you to know if these were present?
What’s Important
to Me?
what’s
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