37 Copyright 2023 Marline E. Pearson Problem-Solving First, have a good discussion. Try to understand each other’s concerns. Use the Speaker Listener Technique. 1. Brainstorm possible solutions. Write them down! 2. Process of elimination and compromise to find a solution. 3. Follow-up—is it working? Reflections Which skills do I need to work on? How might they help my relationships? Sample Do Not Distribute problem-solving & reflections